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Breaking the Cycle: Burnout, Perfectionism, and the Hidden Costs of High Achievement

Burnout isn’t just about overwork—it’s often fueled by perfectionism, high-functioning anxiety, and people-pleasing. If you’re feeling depleted despite doing everything “right,” you’re not alone. This article explores why high achievers are especially vulnerable to burnout—and how to begin the process of recovery.

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