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Relationships Rebecca Lesser Allen, PsyD Relationships Rebecca Lesser Allen, PsyD

The Real Reason Boundaries Feel So Hard

Boundaries have become one of the most popular concepts in psychology—and one of the most misunderstood. Real boundaries are not about controlling other people, saying no to everything, or cutting people off. They are about remaining connected to yourself even when someone else is disappointed, uncomfortable, or disagrees.

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